It's no secret that marriage counseling can be a daunting prospect for many couples. After all, it requires both partners to open up and discuss topics that may be uncomfortable or difficult to talk about. This can be especially true for men, who often struggle to express their feelings and emotions. As a result, even though they may recognize the potential benefits of marriage counseling, many men still refuse to go.
In some cases, the couple may have already decided that their relationship is beyond repair and thus have no interest in seeking counseling. However, it's important to note that therapy should never be used as a threat or ultimatum. Doing so will only make your partner more resistant to the idea. It's also possible that your partner has been suggesting marriage counseling for some time, but his pleas have been rejected or met with defensiveness.
If this is the case, it's important to approach the topic with empathy and understanding. This episode of the Love, Happiness and Success podcast is dedicated to helping you understand the common anxieties and misperceptions that may be preventing your partner from seeking marriage counseling. Often, the reluctance to seek counseling is due to one partner refusing to go. However, it's important to note that both partners must participate in order for marriage counseling to be effective. Even if your partner is initially resistant, they may come around after attending the first session.
One of the biggest mistakes couples make when it comes to marriage counseling is waiting too long before seeking help. If you're still considering how to get your partner to come with you for couples therapy or marriage counseling, even if they say they won't, don't give up hope.
